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Friday, March 13

Pain



Pain. We all feel it. We all go through it at times. Whether it is emotional or physical pain, it still hurts. And when it's both, it hurts even worse.
So why do some of us think pain feels good? You think about all the "emo" people out there and you wonder what's their reason? Why do they hurt themselves? I once had an experience where I was curious enough to cut myself, and it took a long time to heal me after that. Not just the marks on my wrist, but the marks I'd put on my personality, my family, and my friends. I almost lost my best friend because of it.
People all handle pain differenly. Some people take it lightly, still smiling, acting as if they are 100% great. Others are so depressed and hurting that they're not willing to make an effort to be happy.
Me? I think pain is something to be contemplated. Pain is only painful if you make it. Not everything has to be painful, but people choose to let it be.
What I consider painful? Being far away from people that you love. Having a baby. Loosing a family member.
What is not painful? I can't say. It is up to you to make that decision.
But remember, if it doesn't have to be painful, don't make it.